Comments for hardcandycalendar.com Blog http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog Just another WordPress site Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:28:05 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Hard Candy 2010 Underway by suitesomethings http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/07/30/hard-candy-2010-underway/#comment-48 suitesomethings Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:28:05 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=158#comment-48 Thanx Alana, I will definitely give u a call, and soon after u'll appear in this very blog! LOL Thanx Alana, I will definitely give u a call, and soon after u’ll appear in this very blog! LOL

]]> Comment on Hard Candy 2010 Underway by suitesomethings http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/07/30/hard-candy-2010-underway/#comment-47 suitesomethings Sat, 22 Aug 2009 12:28:05 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=158#comment-47 Thanx Alana, I will definitely give u a call, and soon after u'll appear in this very blog! LOL Thanx Alana, I will definitely give u a call, and soon after u’ll appear in this very blog! LOL

]]> Comment on Hard Candy 2010 Underway by Alana http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/07/30/hard-candy-2010-underway/#comment-46 Alana Sat, 22 Aug 2009 02:31:48 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=158#comment-46 Even thou you were frustrated the picture came out beautifully. The fact that you didn't want to slow down or had a little set back doesn't show at all. Tina looks great as so do you and the stars are a very nice touch. I also love the fact that the picture has a light blue tint to it. Plus the fact that you are doing this also for Breast Cancer I think is very honorable. My mother is an 8yr survivor. Keep up the great work and if you need femmes hit me up i'm interested and welling. Take Care God Bless..... Even thou you were frustrated the picture came out beautifully. The fact that you didn’t want to slow down or had a little set back doesn’t show at all. Tina looks great as so do you and the stars are a very nice touch. I also love the fact that the picture has a light blue tint to it. Plus the fact that you are doing this also for Breast Cancer I think is very honorable. My mother is an 8yr survivor. Keep up the great work and if you need femmes hit me up i’m interested and welling. Take Care God Bless…..

]]> Comment on Frustrated by knowledge http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/08/02/frustrated/#comment-49 knowledge Tue, 04 Aug 2009 03:54:47 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=172#comment-49 Wow!! It was so much fun working with you and Kuni, I'm already looking forward to doing it again next year -- you can count on me. I hope the shoot went off well today, push on, keep on pushing on. You're doing great things. p.s. I'm going to use this photo for a blog post if that's cool with you. Let me know if not. Wow!! It was so much fun working with you and Kuni, I’m already looking forward to doing it again next year — you can count on me. I hope the shoot went off well today, push on, keep on pushing on. You’re doing great things.

p.s. I’m going to use this photo for a blog post if that’s cool with you.
Let me know if not.

]]> Comment on Gay “Pride” by knowledge http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/30/gay-pride/#comment-45 knowledge Thu, 30 Jul 2009 23:11:05 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=150#comment-45 I walked with Lambda Legal this year. I had no idea hard candy was in the parade! Had I known, I would have asked you could I volunteer to walk with your float. I had fun too, and I feel you on the "mardi gras" atmosphere. It's one aspect of the parade that hasn't really changed in all the years I've attended. I guess you also have to look at the history behind the parade to really understand why white gay men have such a resounding presense. Black people NEED to become more involved in the parades, I wish we would if only to show that we too have strong pride in ourselves and our community. I know we do as a whole, but presense makes the difference. Next year, if you decide to enter hard candy into the parade, keep me in mind! I walked with Lambda Legal this year. I had no idea hard candy was in the parade! Had I known, I would have asked you could I volunteer to walk with your float. I had fun too, and I feel you on the “mardi gras” atmosphere. It’s one aspect of the parade that hasn’t really changed in all the years I’ve attended. I guess you also have to look at the history behind the parade to really understand why white gay men have such a resounding presense. Black people NEED to become more involved in the parades, I wish we would if only to show that we too have strong pride in ourselves and our community. I know we do as a whole, but presense makes the difference. Next year, if you decide to enter hard candy into the parade, keep me in mind!

]]> Comment on Call Me Mr. Lez by suitesomethings http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/13/call-me-mr-lez/#comment-43 suitesomethings Thu, 25 Jun 2009 02:45:30 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-43 hey knowledge, i can always count on you 2 add some incredibly insightful commentary. i feel much more enlightened. hey knowledge,
i can always count on you 2 add some incredibly insightful commentary. i feel much more enlightened.

]]> Comment on Call Me Mr. Lez by knowledge http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/06/13/call-me-mr-lez/#comment-42 knowledge Wed, 24 Jun 2009 19:00:55 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=147#comment-42 This is a great topic. Very touchy subject for a lot of studs I'd imagine. For most of our lives there is a sense of simply trying to find oneself, and often you hear a labels being applied to you, even masculine identified labels are applied and some studs reject, some accept, varying reasons. Feminine labels don't affect the swagger, but they're interesting in their own sense because they could be deemed as detracting from our masculinity somehow. I've dated girls that have called me Papi, Daddi, etc, and I didn't protest because those labels were borne of respect for how I identify as a more masculine lesbian, even if I do not under any circumstances want to be a man. Same with Boi or Bro or Bruh. Among most of the studs I know, these are terms of endearment, not terms that signify a disconent of or with our/their womanhood. This is a great topic. Very touchy subject for a lot of studs I’d imagine. For most of our lives there is a sense of simply trying to find oneself, and often you hear a labels being applied to you, even masculine identified labels are applied and some studs reject, some accept, varying reasons. Feminine labels don’t affect the swagger, but they’re interesting in their own sense because they could be deemed as detracting from our masculinity somehow. I’ve dated girls that have called me Papi, Daddi, etc, and I didn’t protest because those labels were borne of respect for how I identify as a more masculine lesbian, even if I do not under any circumstances want to be a man. Same with Boi or Bro or Bruh. Among most of the studs I know, these are terms of endearment, not terms that signify a disconent of or with our/their womanhood.

]]> Comment on Stud Moms Get No Respect by suitesomethings http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/11/stud-moms-get-no-respect/#comment-35 suitesomethings Wed, 24 Jun 2009 03:06:09 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=123#comment-35 thank you. glad 2 c a stud holding it down as a mom. keep it up! thank you. glad 2 c a stud holding it down as a mom. keep it up!

]]> Comment on Stud Moms Get No Respect by Azaan Kamau http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/11/stud-moms-get-no-respect/#comment-34 Azaan Kamau Tue, 23 Jun 2009 23:26:18 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=123#comment-34 Dayum! That is soooooooo on point! As a stud parent, I have much respect to every stud/butch woman that steps up to the plate, no matter how society treats her! Dayum! That is soooooooo on point! As a stud parent, I have much respect to every stud/butch woman that steps up to the plate, no matter how society treats her!

]]> Comment on Stud Moms Get No Respect by Azaan Kamau http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/05/11/stud-moms-get-no-respect/#comment-33 Azaan Kamau Tue, 23 Jun 2009 23:26:18 +0000 http://suitesomethings.wordpress.com/?p=123#comment-33 Dayum! That is soooooooo on point! As a stud parent, I have much respect to every stud/butch woman that steps up to the plate, no matter how society treats her! Dayum! That is soooooooo on point! As a stud parent, I have much respect to every stud/butch woman that steps up to the plate, no matter how society treats her!

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