Comments on: “Am I My Sistah’s Keep-Her?” http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/11/19/%e2%80%9cam-i-my-sistahs-keep-her%e2%80%9d/ Bringing the Dominant Woman to the Forefront Sun, 04 Jul 2010 01:32:16 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Administrator http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/2009/11/19/%e2%80%9cam-i-my-sistahs-keep-her%e2%80%9d/comment-page-1/#comment-100 Administrator Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:58:12 +0000 http://hardcandycalendar.com/blog/?p=435#comment-100 as I spent time caring for my kids and myself, i realized that my gyrl has never been sick while we were together. never had a cold or the flu or anything. i've never had to watch over her and feed her soup and take her temperature. she's of course had 2 take care of me plenty of times. but never the other way around. the reason why this calendar is so special to me. this is the only way that i've been able to really do something concerning her health. i wasn't there when she found the lump. i was not there when she go the diagnosis. i was not there for her during her chemo and radiation. but i'm here now and i want her to know that she has my undying support. sometimes it doesn't feel like enough. sometimes we have so much fun with the photoshoots and commeraderie that we forget that there is cause behind the project. tho' it seems like fluff sometimes. me fawning over the good looking womyn and whatnot, i never forget the point of it all. this isn't a vanity piece i do care about every woman that i meet. whether they are femme, stud, gay or st8. and this is how i express it. thru my art. thru photography. thru this lovely little blog. finding this article was right on time for me. i'm fully recovered and ready to wrap up this project but i'm reminded that it's not over. we all have 2 continue 2 care for one another 24/7. in sickness and in health. as I spent time caring for my kids and myself, i realized that my gyrl has never been sick while we were together. never had a cold or the flu or anything. i’ve never had to watch over her and feed her soup and take her temperature. she’s of course had 2 take care of me plenty of times. but never the other way around.

the reason why this calendar is so special to me. this is the only way that i’ve been able to really do something concerning her health. i wasn’t there when she found the lump. i was not there when she go the diagnosis. i was not there for her during her chemo and radiation. but i’m here now and i want her to know that she has my undying support. sometimes it doesn’t feel like enough. sometimes we have so much fun with the photoshoots and commeraderie that we forget that there is cause behind the project.

tho’ it seems like fluff sometimes. me fawning over the good looking womyn and whatnot, i never forget the point of it all. this isn’t a vanity piece i do care about every woman that i meet. whether they are femme, stud, gay or st8. and this is how i express it. thru my art. thru photography. thru this lovely little blog.

finding this article was right on time for me. i’m fully recovered and ready to wrap up this project but i’m reminded that it’s not over. we all have 2 continue 2 care for one another 24/7. in sickness and in health.

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