Comments on: Call Me Mr. Lez

By: just me

just me — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 19:22:43 +0000

thank you for your response Knowledge! this is a great topic! i’m a femme and have always been with femmes. i recently started seeing my first stud (ill never go back to femmes!) and this post was so helpful and gave me a lot of information that i had questions to…so thank you.

By: precious dennis

precious dennis — Tue, 15 Dec 2009 19:28:42 +0000

Well to me i love studs nd sun fems nt all bt i love me sum studs dey are so fuckin sexci nd calm nd cool nd fine well sum are nt all bt neways i love dis topic bc its very interesting even thou i dnt get labels applied to me bt neways wen masculine labels are being applied to a stud sum reject it bt most like it nd own up to it dey dnt have any problem wit it i kno any gurl i go out wit i ask dem first thou cn i kal u dis or dat cuz sum studs very offended by dat u kno kall dem names like Daddy,Papi,Suga Daddi,etc u kno wat im sayin ive dated sun studs dat didnt like it nd sum dat love it cuz to dem dat signify dat dey gt respect frm dere gurl nd i have no prob wit dat neways im a fem by the way

By: suitesomethings

suitesomethings — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 02:45:30 +0000

hey knowledge,
i can always count on you 2 add some incredibly insightful commentary. i feel much more enlightened.

By: knowledge

knowledge — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 19:00:55 +0000

This is a great topic. Very touchy subject for a lot of studs I’d imagine. For most of our lives there is a sense of simply trying to find oneself, and often you hear a labels being applied to you, even masculine identified labels are applied and some studs reject, some accept, varying reasons. Feminine labels don’t affect the swagger, but they’re interesting in their own sense because they could be deemed as detracting from our masculinity somehow. I’ve dated girls that have called me Papi, Daddi, etc, and I didn’t protest because those labels were borne of respect for how I identify as a more masculine lesbian, even if I do not under any circumstances want to be a man. Same with Boi or Bro or Bruh. Among most of the studs I know, these are terms of endearment, not terms that signify a disconent of or with our/their womanhood.