MILF Island
everyone has heard the bleak statistic that 70% of black children are born to single mothers. there is clearly a break down in relationships between men and womyn. i have no solution for that. but i do want to discuss some of the fall out. due to the changing climate, there seems 2 b an influx of frustrated womyn turning 2 womyn because some man has let them down. i’m noticing more and more womyn accepting these str8 womyn with open arms into the tribe with no questions asked. has the lesbian community become the land of the MILFs?
it’s not simple cases of womyn being in the closet and deciding that they can no longer pretend. i wish it were that. instead, there are womyn who are disappointed, let down, and hurt that honestly believe that being with other womyn will alleviate their pain. silly mortals. oh, so womyn can’t hurt other womyn? ha! and the irony of that thinking is that they turn out to b the ones hurting folks once they realize that they can’t pretend to be gay for too long.
i could create a set of encyclopedias with the stories of lesbians who get their hearts crushed by some bisexual that ran back to their camp. but really it’s not bisexuals at all. i think that most of these womyn are just not gay in the first place. they just want a warm body in their huts, free baby sitting or someone to help with the hunting. that’s it. as much as i wish there some sort of ritual we could perform to know who’s legit, we can’t. instead we go thru the trials and challenges until we meet with the hope of winning the prize at the end.
the prize of love that is all to romaticized among womyn. sounds obvious right? romance and love belong together. but not if u’r looking for it in all the wrong villages. i believe in the miracle of love as much as the next chick but too many of my sisters are way to unrealisitc to function well in relationships. putting up with a whole lot of bull that they know is bull but still hoping that love can come out of that. well it can’t. i know it. they know it and the st8 momma’s that they date know it. it’s high time folks woke up and quit walking over hot coals and voted the st8 MILFs off the island.
Interesting how the reverse happens within heterosexual relationships and so the backlash is unfairly directed upon bisexuals. Good point that I didn’t give much thought to with regard to this previously. But there is no meter, no true gaydar to determine who is and who isn’t, fortunate for some, but not for others. I also think the issue has a lot to do with how fast women move when they’re in the beginning stages of forming a relationship. Lesbians, in general, are known for moving too fast and it’s not some myth, it’s a reality and cultvating relationships has taken a back seat to simply jumping into them, often times head first. It’s an interesting thing to be sure.
