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I came across Malinda Lo’s Notes & Queeries column published on AfterEllen.com. It is truly a pleaser to hear from a fellow butch admirer. She discussed the negative view of butch womyn in the media. All points that she presented, I agreed with but couldn’t help but wonder: is it worse to be portrayed negatively or not at all?” I kept thinking to myself, at least there

  I have a small bone to pick with Oprah Winfrey.  First I want 2 point out that I absolutely admire her and think that her accomplishments and contribution to society are commendable. But she dropped the ball on her show on Women Leaving Men for Other Women. I don't want 2 go into the conversation about labels and whether they're "real" lesbians or bisexuals. The concept of sexuality being fluid was